We love France. We honeymooned in Paris 7 years ago, where we became huge fans of the bread, cheese, and wine. It wasn’t until this trip, though, that we learned to appreciate the people of France.

Last year we met French couple Audrey and Pierre in Chugchilan, Ecuador, a remote little village in Andes Mountains. We were all there for the stunning views and hiking, and we stayed at a lodge that served communal meals. Audrey and Pierre were in the midst of a 6-month South American journey. We talked over dinner one night, exchanged email addresses like you do with tons of other travelers, and went our separate ways.
We stayed in touch with Pierre and Audrey over the last several months by occasional emails, and when Pierre read that we were in Belgium he asked us to come to France to visit them. It is a fairly easy train ride from Brussels to Lyon, France, and wet me up with Pierre at the train station as he was getting off work.
What did we do that next week? Well, we learned a lot about France and got a much-needed dose of family time - even if it wasn’t ours.
French family dining
The French are famous for their food, and they should be. What is more remarkable, however, is the way they eat their food. Meals are hours-long events in France, and we were fortunate to attend two family dinners in the gorgeous area of Annecy in the Alps - a milestone birthday party and a baptism. Both came with lots of people, incredible food, and flowing wine. It’s a multigenerational thing, too: We talked with neighbors and children and watched briefly as a grandparent played chess with an 8-year-old neighbor boy. Warren played basketball with adults and kids outside by the pool (and fished out an opponent after he fell in). We shared stories of travel and adventure, recipes for new foods, and joked about the differences between people from the US and France as well as the similarities. It is those long evenings around a table, drinking wine, sharing stories, and laughing into the wee hours of the night that are the most memorable parts of a trip like ours, and we felt very lucky to be part of Audrey and Pierre’s family celebrations.
Frog legs
Speaking of food, we had to try one of the delicacies in France: frog legs (“cuisses de grenouilles” en Francais). These buttery little delights were a surprise. Check out Warren’s reaction to his first frog legs while dining at a restaurant: (click here if you don’t see the video below)
Crepes
Yet another culinary delight was the crepe. Pierre took us to his Uncle Hervé’s crepe stand in Rullily,
and we enjoyed some of the best crepes we’ve ever had. It is like watching an artist at work to see the thin layer of batter get painted on the grill and in seconds turn into a delicious crepe. Hervé used to have a more traditional job at a factory, but he gave it all up to make crepes. He says he likes it better despite the more irregular income because he sells happiness every day. How’s that for a job description?
Beaune, the capital of the Burgundy wine region
Beaune is the capital of the Burgundy wine region, and it is a short distance there by train from Bourg-en-Bresse or Lyon. We toured Patriarche winery’s cellars and sampled 13 different wines by candlelight below the ground. The winery is so big that they have 5 km of tunnels stacked with wine
underneath the city, and we walked through quite a bit of it. It would have been great to go out to the vineyards themselves, but since it was harvest time most of them were closed to visitors. We splurged and bought 4 bottles of nicer wine, and we loved sharing it with our new friends over the weekend.
Lyon, France
One day, Audrey was off all afternoon so we decided to explore Lyon together. We rented bikes from the stands at the park after unsuccessfully looking for bikes at 2 other stands (the first 30 minutes are free, so you can see why many people use them to get around the city quickly and cheaply). We ate lunch by the river Rhône and biked from the park to the opera house and over to the Confluence, which is where the Rhône meets up with the Saône. Here we marveled at the very un-Lyon-like modern architecture in the area and stopped for a drink while we waited for Pierre to join us.
Annecy, France: the Venice of the Alps
We drove to Annecy on Friday evening when Pierre and Audrey got off work. This beautiful city sits in the foothills of Alps, and both the city and the surroundings are beautiful. There are canals running throughout, with cobblestone streets and bridges and lots of shops and restaurants around the castle. We walked around the park, watching a local dance club swing-dance under the stars, and then ordered a takeaway pizza so we could eat alongside the canal. It was a great introduction to the Alps, even if we couldn’t really see them until the next day.
We haven’t seen really big mountains since we left South America, so it was great to finally see the Alps the next morning. Pierre drove us to a nearby path and we decided to take a short 3-hour hike before rewarding ourselves with Uncle Hervé’s crepes. It proved to a little too challenging to me with my bum foot and I had to stop before reaching the top, but Warren, Audrey and Pierre scrambled their way up for a great view. I sat on the bench and took photos for families as they pit-stopped, and I got to practice a little French. (Mostly, “de sole, parle vous Francais en peu.”) It was a beautiful day to be outside and take in the first scents of fall coming.
What we loved most about France
One thing we love about travel is meeting people, but even better is meeting the people of those people: friends, parents, children, cousins, neighbors. New experiences shared with interesting people are always more meaningful. Our time in France was brief, but after making friends we know we will be back.
We have to give a lot of credit to Pierre and Audrey for inviting two relative strangers into their home for a week and driving us up to their hometown to meet both sides of the family on two important occasions. They exemplify how to live the good life - meeting new people, connecting others, and staying in touch. And after meeting their families, we can see where they get it. Thanks to all of you - Pascale, Patrick, and the whole family - for sharing your weekend with us.
Have you ever met someone on your travels and invited them to come visit? How did it go?
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As my dad would have said, ‘you two really have your heads on straight!’. Thanks for the wonderful life lessons you discover, contemplate and write about during your wonderful journey. You are a true inspiration to me.
I like your dad. That’s a great saying! The greatest part of this journey is not what we see and experience but what we learn because of what we see and experience.
I just had a good laugh when I read “we me up” with Pierre, when I knew it was supposed to be “we met up.”
Ha! I’m already starting to edit your stuff!
Dang! I typo’d the typo joke! “Wet me up” with Pierre is what cracked me up.
Same here!
The uncharacteristic typo made me laugh out loud! I expect that Betsy had one too many glasses of vin before posting.
Ha ha ha. You guys crack me up. I’m going to leave it in there just for laughs.
I saw “bread, cheese and wine” and was hooked. We’re big France fans as well (even ran a marathon there). Have been to Annecy as well. Loved it.
As a matter of fact, we JUST met a couple people in Alaska that we asked to come visit us in Seattle. We’ll se what happens
You guys really are living the good life, Kent. And I am amazed to hear that you were actually able to run a marathon there - I think we gained 5 pounds in a week! (Which we are easily taking off in Amsterdam as the food is not nearly as good as Belgium or France).
Please tell me your new friends were not the crazy poachers you met in the woods on your hike!
I’ve been to France once.
What I loved best . . . the food! Baguettes, Cafe au Lait, Blood Oranges, Onion Soup, Croque Monsieurs, Petit Pain, Pomme Frites, Crepes . . . and nary a cuisses de grenouilles passed my lips.
Glad you had such a delightful time.
nrhatch, I agree the food is really divine in France (and something we’re missing now in culinary-challenged Amsterdam). I didn’t even mention the cheese - and that everyone has an assortment ready to serve after the evening meal (same in the UK). That is a tradition I can take with us!
As an Italian, I can appreciate such a food, family and conversational culture. Some of my best childhood memories are of my large, intergenerational family playing card games together after a 4 course holiday meal! Thanks for this great post. I especially loved the crepe guy who “sells happiness for a living.” Priceless!!
Maria, we were told that some holiday meals start and don’t end before it is time for the next meal, so everyone just has a coffee and sits back down to eat!
That’s xmas in Sweden. One basically starts eating around 11am and finishes, with a few small breaks, around midnight.
When I was in school in Japan I was invited to a lot of family events…that was awesome!! As an adult it hasn’t happened as much as I would have liked…especially here in China. I think I need to start inviting my self over. The art of asking…right?? I think I might need to implement it in our social aspect as well!!
Paz, maybe you can invite people to your home first and share some of your family traditions and ask about theirs. Before long, I’m sure the conversation will turn to an invitation to dinner. Let us know how it works out!
Ooh so envious! I’ve only been to Paris once, the long awaited dream trip from the time I was in high school. Unfortunately I chose the wrong travelling companion so I DEFINITELY need to go back and revisit with the RIGHT companion! While I was there I went (on my own as my friend didn’t want to go) to visit Mont St Michel - absolute highight of the trip for me as it was just such an awesome place! Would love to go back there again as well!
Paris really is great. We loved our honeymoon there and have many fond memories. I just looked up Mont St. Michel - what a great place! We’ll have to add that to our list of things to see. Did you walk across the sand to get there or use the causeway?
Hi Betsy
We used the causeway (on a bus tour). You need to make sure you take a guide to walk across the sand I believe as it can be very dangerous, kind of like quicksand I think
That’s what I read, Judy. It would be daring and fun to get there that way, but probably not wise.
We spent about a week in France years ago - a few days in Marseille and a few days in Paris. As soon as we arrived in Paris we discovered banana-nutella crepes and were totally hooked! We ate three the first day (and obviously got a stomach-ache, but it was worth it) and a few more after that. I had completely forgotten about it until I read the part in your post about crepes…. and now I can’t wait to go to France again!! =)
Christy, that sounds delicious! It reminds me of the “banoffee” treats that Angela wrote about when she first heard we were coming to Europe. And now that I’ve discovered the goodness that is nutella…well, I’ll have it on every crepe from now on!
Meeting people is definitely the best part of travel! I just spent a month in Nicaragua and issued an open invite to several of new buddies. It’s a weird concept though-you get really close to people in a short amount of time, and when you part ways, there is a very likely possibility that you will never meet again. I can always hope for the best right? And of course-set fare alerts for the best plane tickets
I love it - you take the extra step of getting the fare alerts, Claire! That is brilliant. I hope your new friends take you up on the offer to come visit.
That was great! I feel like I’ve been to France; I’m still burping up frog-legs. No slimy snails? uh . . . I mean escargot?
You two really have some of the most amazing experiences . . . by creating such amazing experiences! Thanks again for sharing them with us.
Tranque, we saw lots of escargot street vendors in Brussels, but nary a one in France. Weird, huh? Maybe we didn’t look hard enough.
Oh…this takes me back - I was actually in France on September 11, 2001. Ten years ago, and I haven’t managed to make it back. But I had a fabulous time, and I think Lyon (the park and its roses so beautiful in September) was my favorite city - I loved the history, the food, and how different it was from Paris and what I expected of a major French city.
Andrea, I think Lyon is the second-largest city in France, but for some reason it feels like a small town. It really is charming, and we loved our time there. Hope you get to go back soon!