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Passion Makes All The Difference

Like many of you I dream about identifying my passion in life and finding a career that lets me apply it in a fun and amazing way. For me this is the meaning of life and happiness and once you get on the quest you seem to seek it endlessly.

There were a number of reasons we wanted to go to Antarctica - adventure, wildlife, beauty. However, inspiration from the tour staff was completley unexpected.During our recent trip to Antarctica we met 12 people that have done just that and they have inspired me that this exploration is more than just a dream. This group was the Expedition team from Gap Adventures who work the polar cruises (Antarctic and Arctic). Each person brings a unique set of skills and experience to the job, but without fail they each have one thing in common: Passion.

It is rare to meet someone that knows what their passion in life is. It is rarer still to find someone that has chosen to live this passion to its fullest each day, blending work and play into a lifestyle. This group meant the difference between a great trip to Antarctica (frankly it is a place where simply sitting and looking is beyond words) to an experience that changes how I perceive my life. Watching the team engage passengers and make us excited about history, geology, birds, etc., it was shocking. While it would be easy to write pages on each person, I will stick to 3 individuals that really stand out to me:

 

Scott is the historian, and he has been coming to the Antarctic for 13 years. In fact, we figured up his time just crossing the Drake Passage at over 600 days. No wonder he didn’t get seasick in Force 12 weather conditions! When Scott tells you a story about the great explorers - Shackleton, Amundsen, Scott, or Ross - he brings the story to life. It makes you feel like a kid listening to your favorite uncle tell a story and hanging on to his every word. It is pretty obvious that Scott is a huge fan of the great explorers & mariners, and he knows details you won’t find in a travel brochure. He also has his own opinions about why things went right and how they went wrong based on his own experience, and we found his talks riveting as a result. This is a guy who truly loves this subject, and his enthusiasm is infectious.

Colin is from Vancouver, which is near the home of 3 pods of Orcas (aka killer whales). We have seen these pods before while vacationing on the San Juan Islands, so it was a treat to hear him talk about growing up and “getting to know” these whales from a very early age. When you are onboard a ship for two weeks you can easily get to know the crew. Like many of the staff, he works in both the Arctic and Antarctic, which puts him away from home much of the year. I asked him what he liked to do in his spare time when he was not telling us all about whales and other marine mammals and taking us out in Zodiac boats to see them. His answer? “Go out and look for whales.” Colin was perhaps the most ferocious defender of the “3-meter rule” in which we were supposed to always stay away from the animals (unless they approached us). He is devoted to keeping the wildlife wild and using these tours as a way to expose people to the grandeur and fragility of the polar regions so we can be advocates for it when we return to our regular lives.

Kevin was our naturalist and was perhaps the most demonstrative team member. He will rarely be seen without his camera and binoculars, and he was often the first to make a whale sighting or to identify a bird. Kevin is a birder, and far more than just showing us what markings indicate what type of bird, he showed us how birds exist in the polar ecosystem, introduced us to birds that never land, and almost bubbled over with excitement when we saw rare sightings (in this area) of an Emperor penguin and a Macaroni penguin. Plus, his late night skills on the dance floor are worth the price of admission.

These are people who embrace their passion and have learned how to make a living with it. How many of us can say that? For them, it means the difference between having a job to pay the bills and getting paid for doing something they love. That distinction shows up in everything they do and how it translates for the rest of us as passengers. That passion also translates into a pretty good picture of one of these guys dancing very late at night in the Polar Bear Lounge, but we’ve decided not to show it.Passion equals enthusiasm, but it doesn’t always equal taste. ;)

Thanks to all of you for making our cruise to the Antarctic unforgettable and for teaching us a few lessons about living your passion at the same time.

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About Warren

Warren is passionate about trying new things and willing to say yes to a new adventure. He enjoys sharing his adventures through his love of photography. Warren finds that the most rewarding part of traveling the world is the people he meets and discoveries made through conversations. Travel fills his desire to learn more each day about the world around us and what drives other people to be happy. Drop him an email at wtalbot (at) marriedwithluggage (dot) com and feel free to check out his Google+ page.

Comments

  1. I love meeting people who are doing anything, but loving it. It must be so great to be surrounded by a group like this.

  2. Ayngelina, agreed 100%. We are loving the opportunity to meet people who exude passion and make you want to go out and find your own. Every day on the ship gives us another opportunity to talk to them and learn how they achieved their goal.

  3. Hi Warren and Betsy,

    thanks to both of you for making it ever more possible to live my passion!

    love, Margit!!!

  4. Warren: What a great post! And what an amazing experience for you and Betsy. I’m with you a 110% on this. Always inspiring to hear real-life examples, and also note how these passion people not only have a great time in life, but positively impact those around them. I feel so lucky to have found work and a lifestyle I adore. Working for myself certainly brings challenges, but also great joy and fulfillment.

    • Hi Laila,
      You are a part of the minority that knows what you like and have carved out a career for yourself that fits perfectly. Nicely done. We love meeting and talking to people that living their dream. Congrats for doing just that!

  5. Really good post! I also believe in living life with passion. Anything less is disrespectful of the life and the gifts we’ve been given. Really enjoying hearing about your travels.

    • Thank you Brenda. Disrespectful is a perfect way to describe it. Life really is short so why go through it all without searching for passion with everything you do.

  6. Tranque Fuller says:

    Ah, Warren this is a topic that is very near and dear to me! Finding someone who’s “job” also happens to be what they’re Passionate about is not only rare . . . but truly is a beautiful thing. Why is it so rare? There are a slew of answers to that question, but at the top are these:

    1) Our own fears and self-doubts that we could ever make a living doing what we love. A big part of this is we just can’t see HOW we could do it. Also speaks to our self-images and feelings of worthiness.

    2) Maybe this is just part of reason 1, but we get side-tracked from our Passions by the need to “pay the bills”. Soon years have past and we hate our jobs (the “temporary” one we got to pay the bills) our lives are unfulfilled, and we’re so drained from it that we have no energy to even think about what we were once passionate about let alone figure out how to make a career out of it!

    3) Well meaning (maybe?) people — aka parents/family — telling us that we need to get “realistic” and “grow up” because nobody makes enough money doing “X” (whatever X is).

    4) It is not surprising that there a many people who haven’t a clue what they’re passionate about. How could you build a career/life around what you’re passionate about . . . if you have no idea what that is? Once again, I think this is often the result of somewhere along the way we had our enthusiasm wrung right out of us in the name of “Practical” and “Sensible”.

    This is something I’m sure the two of you run headlong into daily as others — and perhaps that little voice that pops up in the back of your mind at times — doubt the sensible-ness of selling off everything you own and traveling the world. Uh… Screw ‘em; and the horse they rode in on!

    “Sensible” is just a code word for “Chicken Shit”!

    Be Present. Expect Success. Live with Passion!
    T

    • Wonderfully put Tranque. I agree there is a long list of reasons for not going after your passion but it seems that FEAR is the most common. We do have days where we stop and wonder how we reached this place in our lives. Overcoming the fear was the biggest obstacle but once on the other side it just alls seems so natural. Now we just need to find a way we can apply our passion towards a career that we love.

      In the meantime I will be adopting your motto for the rest of the trip for any naysayers (get it? nay…): “Screw ‘em; and the horse they rode in on!”

      • Tranque Fuller says:

        Ah … Warren, I see we both share a love of corn-ball puns and jokes. ;) lol!!!

        Absolutely! It is amazing the human capacity to create very logical, sensible, reasonable, responsible rationalizations for giving in to our fears.

        I hate to say it, but the two of you are a threat to most of us! lol!!! By not succumbing to your fears and doing something so free and wonderful you’re a subtle reminder that most of us our making weak compromises and “settling for” instead of living passionate lives filled with adventure and new experiences. How dare you!! lol!!!!!!!!

  7. I just read a Facebook exchange with a friend who is worried she is falling back on her “Plan B” just because it is there and easier than the path she’s trying to carve out now. The response from a very smart woman (who is also an MWL reader, of course!) was to “Burn all the boats” a la the explorer Cortez when he landed in the Americas. We all talk about having a Plan B to “fall back on” but most of us actually start there and never leave. That was certainly my problem for a long time.

    “Burn all the boats” is going to be sticking in my head for a while.

    • Cortez - you mean the guy who killed tons of Aztecs?

      • Tranque Fuller says:

        Uh … If you don’t like Cortez the Killer (thanks Neil Young); then we can use Alexander the Great as an example; he had his men burn their boats about a thousand years before Cortez used this same strategy. (Damn Aztec Killin’ Copycat!) In fact it has been done quite a few times throughout history to ensure the success of a military campaign.

  8. truly amazing when you find someone has passion for their career, whatever it may be. I think it’s harder to find your true passion then some may think, but this is only motivation to keep searching for it if you haven’t yet found it.

    • Matt, you are reading my mind. I have met very few people in my life that can quickly answer what their passion is in life. At least with finding a job you can get creative but at least you have some guidelines and places to start. Finding your passion is far more challenging and something for which there is no instruction book. All I know is that you won’t find it with a closed mind and a curious spirit.

  9. “Burn all the boats” - I love that!

    What an awesome and inspiring thing - to have been surrounded with such a group. We all wish we could be in that wonderful place of having passionate work (that pays the bills)! Someday… :)

    • Dalene, you and Pete are the inspiration between our zest to dive into housesitting. Hearing how much fun you all are having and are so passionate to share we are simply excited just listening. I have no doubt you guys will find that passion and job and then we will all be reading about it on you blog. We can’t wait to finally meet you in person!

  10. Thank you guys so much for your info on Gap Adventures. As someone who travels frequently I have always wanted to try a “group travel” but felt is was for a different type of traveler then me. Your accounts have made me realize there are groups for everyone. I have started to review all Gap has to offer! I think you both should get a referral bonus…or maybe credit for another trip : ) Thanks for all you do and providing those of us still at home with your adventures!

    • Lindsay, we felt exactly the same way before this trip. We have always enjoyed the freedom that comes with travel and the opportunity to go/stay wherever or whenever we like. The idea of joining an organized tour with a group of strangers gave us pause.

      That said, we may now be hooked (and potentially spoiled) by the wonderful job that Gap Adventures did on our cruise. We were able to do as little or as much as we wanted each day and the majority of the passengers were similar to us in their thirst for new experiences.

      I love your idea of credit for another trip. There are so many more we would love to take. Maybe an African safari next….yes, that sounds fun.

  11. Barb Donaldson says:

    Hi Warren & Betsy -
    I shared that Antarctic voyage with you (thanks for helping post my FB profile pic!), and I share your thoughts and choices of the passionate crew; at first Kevin struck me as the penultimate British ‘birder’, waxing philosophical on a smudge of colour on a bird’s cheek, or telling us how to ‘walk like a penguin’ ☺ — but I soon tried to seek him out on every shore landing or ship railing, just to see through his eyes and learn. I learned from, and enjoyed, all of them; and the ship’s crew was great as well!

    Safe journeys — where to next? I went to Iguazzu Falls and Easter Island after Antarctica, and am just now trying to assimilate everything I’ve absorbed. It’s a marvelous world!!

    • Hey Barb,
      It is wonderful to hear from you again. As I type this I am actually sitting in the discovery lounge on the MS Expedition. We asked if we could ride on the ship during the repositioning cruise from Ushuaia to Falmouth, England and Gap Adventures agreed. So, today we are sitting just southeast of Montevideo, Uruguay.

      The weather is getting warmed so we are enjoying a lot of time on the decks. The challenge is we are seeing a lot of birds and we don’t have Kevin here to help us identify them all. Though thanks to his talks I can at least name over half of them.

      It is odd to be on the ship without all of you, but we are having a blast.

  12. I just returned from the last Antarctica trip of the season on the M/S Expedition - right before you boarded to head north with the ship (how fun)! The staff and crew of this ship is incredible - so many of them left a positive impression on me, including the three you mention above. While less visible, I also really enjoyed meeting Scobe who has extensive experience and a wealth of knowledge about Antarctica - fascinating fellow and looks like he belongs there! Scott was one of my favorites too - I enjoyed story-time with him in the Discovery Lounge. In addition to being an overall amazing experience (and we were INCREDIBLY lucky to have near-perfect weather for our entire trip), this experience also got me thinking about my life and career. Such a special experience for so many reasons - I’ve been home for 4 days now and am struggling to get refocused on work because all I can think about is the amazing experience I just had. Have a great trip to England - I look forward to following it!

  13. Stephanie says:

    Hi Warren and Betsy,

    I just discovered your blog and am loving reading through it. It’s great to hear what a wonderful time you’re having. I just started working for Gap Adventures in the London office as the “Adventure Intern.” I haven’t yet been on a Gap tour myself, but it makes me so happy to read such positive stories.

    Also I think it’s so cool that you asked to go back on the boat from Argentina to Falmouth! Falmouth is an adorable little town where my boyfriend’s family is from, but I’m sure it won’t compare to all the places you’ve been by now!

    Best,

    Steph

    • Steph, we are so excited to be on the ship that we can hardly stand it. The crew is amazing and we have been able to explore more of it without all the other passengers aboard. Everyone is so friendly and the food remains amazing. Each morning we fall in love with Gap Adventures a bit more.

      We are looking forward to our time in the UK and are planning out several multi-day walks/hikes. Thanks to the Lonely Planet library on ship we have plenty of materials to read up on the area before we get there. We would love any suggestions you may have on things we cannot miss while in Cornwall, or all of UK. We find that getting advice from locals is the best possible way to see a place.

      It would be wonderful if we could come into London and meet the staff there at the office. Drop us an email and let know.

  14. Thanks for sharing this. I’m just starting to the blogger world and beginning a new business in helping newly weds start their marriage off right. We are learning as we go so reading this is very encouraging to think about for our marriage. I would love any tips you might have in starting a small business too (which will be a non-profit).

x

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